Grads on the Go!

We caught up with two of our graduates, Asiphe and Lucia this week! Asiphe is a first year student at the South Africa Maritime School & Transport College and Lucia is finishing up her first term at Central Technical College in the civil engineering program. Check out what they had to say about their post-secondary school studies!

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Lucia is a 2015 Ubuntu Youth graduate studying civil engineering at Central Technical College

Tell us what you’re up to, Lucia!
“I am a civil engineering student at Central Technical College in Durban. Right now, I am on school break and am spending my time at the Ubuntu Youth Centre tutoring secondary school students in biology, mathematics, and civil engineering.”

Why engineering?
“When I was in secondary school, I took a class called Engineering Graphic Design. The class was an introduction to engineering and the different aspects that make up the profession, like drafting. It sparked my interest in engineering and its importance in our society. I am especially interested in bridges and structures. I am fascinated by the process of building structures and the process of going from foundation to completion.”

You mention the importance of engineering. Why is it important, especially in South Africa?
“Engineering is the literal foundation of our society. South Africa’s infrastructure is underdeveloped; for example, many of our roads are gravel or dirt. Some areas have no roads. I want to be part of moving South Africa’s infrastructure toward development.”

What’s your favorite part of your program and how do you want to incorporate it in to your future?
“My absolute favorite part of my program is drafting, which is the process of sketching the plans for the project. When I am finished with college, I hope to work in drafting for a civil engineering firm.”


 

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Asiphe is a 2016 Ubuntu Youth graduate studying at the South Africa Maritime School & Transport College

Hey Asiphe, what inspired you to study the maritime industry?
“When I was doing career research, I found out that the maritime industry has a lot of job opportunities, but there’s not very many black people in the industry. The industry doesn’t get a lot of credit, and most students do not know about it. With the training I will receive, there’s a lot of different paths I could take, so it leaves me with a lot of options.”

Why the South Africa Maritime School & Transport College?
SA Maritime School & Transport College has a small class size, and that really appealed to me. In large university classes, there’s the chance you could miss information or have a hard time getting in touch with professors.

What’s your program like?
It’s a three-year program – the first year focusing on international trade, second year on freight handling, and the third year is shipping operations practice.

What’s been your favorite class?
I really enjoyed Securities. Securities focused on the ethics and complications of transporting goods around the world.

What’s something really cool about your school?
I get to get my forklift license as part of my curriculum!

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Today (and everyday) Should be a Day for Girls

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Nelly, Ubuntu Youth Graduate and Mentor

On International Day of the Girl, we sat down with mentor Nelly to talk about gender equality, and the issues facing young women in South Africa today. Here’s what she had to say:

Even in the 21st century when much progress has been made toward gender equality, why is it still important to recognize the gender gap?
When you’re a girl, you are assigned an image that you are weak and fragile and you can’t be as good as guys are; you can’t be as strong as guys are. But I can do anything a guy can do. At my house, I live with all girls. If there’s a problem with our electricity, we fix it. If the yard needs to be cleaned, we do it. If we need to cut down a tree, we do it. Growing up, boys get the recognition that they are strong, and girls are told they are weak, instilling the hierarchy – men are above, women are below.
In my culture, if you are a woman, no matter what you have – a higher paying job, educational qualifications – you still have to behave in a certain submissive way. This has transferred in to the workplace, even; men will say, “I will not be dictated to by a woman. A woman will not tell me what to do.”

What do you feel contributes negatively toward gender equality?
As girls, we’re expected to behave in a certain way, especially because of the things you see on TV and in magazines and in society as a whole. They expect you to go to parties, they expect you to dress provocatively, and if you don’t do those things, you’re considered not cool. If you don’t go out, you’re considered not cool. Even if I’m seen as “uncool,” I know I’m standing up for what I believe in. I’m not going to go to parties because I don’t want to – not because someone else is telling me what I should do. It’s my own choice. I know what I want in life. I know where I’m going. The little choices you make can determine your whole future.

What would you say to the people that poorly portray women?
They’re killing dreams without even realizing it. Young women see things on TV, and then do what they see, and then it backfires. We must be incredibly careful about what messages we are sending to both young women and young men. We are having to unlearn all of these harmful messages.

As a young black woman, what is your biggest frustration with gender equality in South Africa?
We as black girls are “known” for certain things. When I was in school we were stereotyped for certain things, by peers and teachers, and they would always assume we would end up just like the girls that came before us because you live in the same society, you live in the same community, and so how would you not end up just like them?
As black girls, we limit ourselves. We think to get on top, you must know someone who’s in a high position. We never think we can do it ourselves. You see girls that live next door that might have a degree but is unemployed, so you think, “even if I go to school, even if I study hard, I’ll still end up like that.”
Those thoughts can happen as a result of the community you’re in but also the family you’re brought up in, neither of which you really get to choose. I was a big dreamer growing up and I was always told that my dreams were too big and what I wanted to do “wasn’t for me.” They limit you. You don’t have a right to dream beyond your neighborhood. You don’t have a right to dream beyond what you see. And of course you get discouraged, and girls think that they only way to get to the top is to get a Sugar Daddy. We need to allow ourselves to dream big. We need to allow ourselves to take opportunities that were meant for men. 

Where is the turning point when young women begin to give up on their dreams?
Limiting dreaming big can start at school. It was difficult to show my true potential at school. I was often graded on my skin color and the fact I was a girl, not the quality of my work. I was told I was dumb and that I didn’t know anything, which obviously hurts. I wasn’t given an opportunity to show my capabilities. Negativity keeps ringing in your ears that you’re not good enough; it’s easier to remember what the bad people say than the good. It’s easier for them to destroy your confidence than to build it up.
Because of this, you find a lot of students don’t work to their fullest potential. I was like that in school. I didn’t work to my fullest potential, but I still passed because I was an average learner. I did have one teacher that told me I could achieve more, but it was in grade 12 and was already too late.
Growing up, I taught myself to keep quiet about my dreams, and if I fail, I fail on my own. I think we need to make sure girls are sharing their dreams, but finding a safe person to share it with. Sharing a dream with the wrong person can wipe away all confidence and motivation. You end up giving up on your dream because of one person, and you never had the chance to share it with others that would listen to you and help you materialize the dream. We all have insecurities, but I managed to rise up because I believed in myself. I hope other girls can find people that believe in them, too.

What’s something you wish you could tell young women everywhere?
You can do anything you want to do. Nothing can stop you – not your gender, not your race, not your anything. Women aren’t just housewives or caretakers. Women are worthy of respect. We’ve got our own mind, our own opinions, and our opinions matters.
This isn’t going to be conquered overnight; it’s a long process. It’s going to take many years. But we all have equal rights.

 

Eight Lessons I Learned from World Changers at #PlaceOKC

by Siphelele Zungu

In September, I got an incredible opportunity to travel to Oklahoma in the United States to attend a conference called PLACE hosted by The Mentoring Project. The three-day conference focused on mentoring, relationships, and reconcillation.

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The Ubuntu Youth team with Bob Goff, author of “Love Does” and founder of Restore International, and our Pros for Africa partner, Sister Rosemary.

Thanks to TMP for letting us come! Oklahomans are such loving, caring people with amazing hospitality. I had a great time and made some great memories that will forever stay in my mind and heart. I also have learned so many great lessons during my stay, and I don’t think I’m the same person I was before. I’ve made a list of some of the important lessons I learned throughout my visit.

1. The world won’t change if you don’t change.
I have learned that world changers are those who are willing to change. I met great people who do stuff, who care about changing people’s lives. Their character tells you how much they dream for a better world, and they do not speak about something they do not act on. They practice what they preach.

2. Changing the world doesn’t literally mean changing the WHOLE world alone. You can’t.
I’ve learned that impacting the world doesn’t literally mean changing the whole world. You cannot. But changing the world means touching those around you. Your community is your own world. If one cares enough for their community in each and every corner of the world, that is how we can change the world. It doesn’t mean one person impacting billions of people – you cannot. But if every single person takes responsibility upon themselves to impact the lives of those around them, the world would be changed for the better.

3. Mentoring matters more than you could think.
Take someone with you – in your street, in your neighbourhood, there is one kid that needs you. Drugs, teenage pregnancy, crime, etcetera, are world-wide issues and we could do something about it instead of turning a blind eye. Let’s show up for these kids and help them save themselves, and make them realise that they can overcome these challenges. They are the solution. Let’s believe in them so that they CAN become a success story, because they’re unchained. They have all the potential within them, all they need is someone to believe in them. You’d be amazed by the results.

4. Life is not about us, but about those around us.
Pretty much everyone I met in Oklahoma cared so much about people. They don’t have to talk about it, because what they do tells you how much they care about making positive impacts. These people are living to positively impact people’s lives – they’re not selfish, but selfless. They do not put themselves first. Life is not about them, but about those around them.

5. Everyone has something to offer.
You’re good enough. Anyone can do something for somebody; we have something we can offer. You have all it takes to impact the world. Most people think they need money to do so, but you don’t. You don’t need money to get into that kid’s life and tell him he’s capable of becoming successful, and possesses every weapon to fight for their future.

6. Investing in bonds or buildings is wise, but investing in people is wiser.
Almost everyone likes the idea of investing, including myself. But investing in people seems to be the wisest thing one can do. God never created buildings. He created people. While investing with money is a good idea, I’ve learned that investing in people is more important and has a long lasting effect. People matter.

7. The world can be what you want it be, if you care enough to act.
I’ve learned that world changers are actually the ones that care enough to act. We might think we do not have the power to change the world, but those leaders out there are changing it because they care enough and they act.

8. Your presence should be someone’s blessing and joy.
A challenge upon all of us is to be a blessing, and bring joy to people. I had to question if my existence in the world was either of those, and made a decision to put more effort in becoming a blessing in someone else’s life. I was inspired by these amazing people who are all this and more.

With Dr. John Perkins, civil rights activist and #PlaceOKC Conference keynote speaker.

With Dr. John Perkins, civil rights activist and #PlaceOKC Conference keynote speaker.

People, Not Projects

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When we moved into our new facility last December, there was a lot to be done. There was a lot that needed to be fixed and a lot that needed to be cleaned. We tackled it slowly, and we tackled it together. We did everything together – directors, staff, students. We scrubbed floors together. We scraped and bleached mold off walls together. We picked out colors and painted walls together. We weeded and hoed and raked and moved dirt and bricks and sheets of tin. Together. Students gave up their school holiday to work in the hot sun to make the youth center their home for the next school year. Staff worked double and triple time. Nearly a year later, we’re seeing what happens when you do things…together.

During a school holiday a few weeks ago, Ubuntu Youth staff attended a conference together, making it impossible for a staff member to tend to the growing Ubuntu Youth garden. The class president, Dube, agreed to take on the responsibility of watering the garden while staff was gone. Little did we know the plan he had in mind.

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Three weeks later when we returned to the Ubuntu Youth Center, we returned to a flourishing garden. We thanked Dube for his hard work, and he refused to take all of the credit. We found out he had personally gone to every student’s house and explained the importance of taking care of the youth center during the school holiday. All of the students created a rotational schedule among themselves to spend time in groups at the center each day watering the vegetables and plants, picking up trash, checking the fence lines, and making sure all doors and windows were secure. Teenagers did this. Kids. And they did it without prodding from an adult or staff member. Many walked multiple kilometers for their visit.

When we found out what happened while we were gone, we were humbled and elated. There’s a difference in building something for a community or building something with a community. Ubuntu Youth was built with a community that is now protective of the project. Our community takes ownership in our project and as a nonprofit, that is one of the hardest things to achieve.

When you build something FOR someone, you are investing in a project. When you build something WITH someone, you are investing in people. People trump projects every time.

The Situation According To “Dr. P”

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My name is Nomfundo Precious, and I am a grade 12 learner attending Ubuntu Youth. This is my third year with Ubuntu – I was one of the first students. My aspirations to be a doctor have earned me the nickname “Dr. P.”

Over the past three years, Ubuntu has done more than just helped me with my homework and tutor me in my studies. While I have had the opportunity to expand my knowledge, I have also grown personally. I wish more young people could get involved with organizations like Ubuntu Youth. These organizations are needed in underprivileged communities for students to have a community to get help on homework and maintain motivation to achieve goals. Ubuntu Youth has encouraged me to achieve mine.

The mentors at the Ubuntu Youth Project have gone through the same situations we students are going through right now. Sometimes we find it difficult to talk to those we live with, so having understanding mentors to seek advice from is reassuring. With Ubuntu, I know I am not alone.

Education is the first step in changing a difficult situation you are in. I am using my education to change my situation into exactly what I want it to be. I plan on becoming a doctor to address health issues in my country, specifically psychiatric and mental health. One day, “Dr. P” will be more than just a nickname.

Through a New Lens

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The flat that several of our directors and volunteers stay at was robbed – there’s really no other way to say it. The thief (or perhaps thieves) took three computers, the company’s camera, camera equipment, and a volunteer’s brand new pair of tennis shoes still in the box.

There is something very intimate about being robbed – about someone going through your possessions in pursuit of gaining from your vulnerability, someone searching to profit from your hard work. They weren’t just robbing us personally, they were robbing the students Ubuntu Youth serves, the Ubuntu Youth staff, and the hundreds of donors that contributed to those purchases. If they turn on the computers, they’ll see the Ubuntu Youth logo in the background. If they flip through the photos on the camera, they’ll realize they stole from an organization working to better the lives of children that will stop at nothing for a better future.

Our silver lining lies in the fact that nothing that was taken was irreplaceable. There were no heirlooms, photos, or prized possessions missing. But most importantly – no one was hurt. No one was home at the time. But, unfortunately, we’ve suffered a big loss. Both the computers and camera equipment were large investments for the organization and ones we did not anticipate having to make again. Our emergency budget can only absorb so much of the loss. We have set up a giving campaign on www.purecharity.com with a goal of $1000 to replace our camera equipment and computers. If you’ve ever been on the “other” side of a business or organization, you know how essential computers and a camera are to running logistics, and communicating to your customers and supporters. And if you’ve ever had something taken from you, you know how we feel.

Will you help us?

Giving What I Didn’t Get

by Lusanda Gwayi

School is school whether you love it or hate it. In school, we’ve all gone through the stage where we didn’t know if we could push to the end, or if we were going to drown in the ocean of bullies. School gives you the opportunity to learn to have a brighter future, but sometimes – if not all the time – there are still challenges. Every student faces those challenges. Those challenges can lead to frustration and confusion, and sometimes can push students to the point of taking the wrong path.

Let me tell you about my story:

Growing up, I was laughed at in school because of the poor financial status of my family. I didn’t have a proper school uniform or expensive clothes or shoes. But, I knew we shouldn’t make our lives dependent on material things – expensive clothes in particular. In school, I tried my hardest to fit in with the crowd. I supressed my inner-being, which almost lead me to forget who I was and my own reasoning. I lost my self-esteem, and questioned if I was even capable of doing anything at all. I’ve had the privelege of discussing issues just like this with my mentees at Ubuntu Youth.

School should be a place that has all the resources learners need to succeed, but unfortunately, that’s not the case in this part of the world. School should be fun and inviting, and students should be excited to go everyday. Although that may not be what school is like here, that is what the Ubuntu Youth Project is like. Our students come everyday; even during heavy rainstorms you find them trekking in, dripping wet, because they know the Ubuntu Youth Project environment is welcoming, productive, and the resources are there for them to succeed. Although this is something I never had while I was in school, I am very glad to be part of it as a mentor.

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Lusanda Gwayi, Ubuntu Youth Mentor